Humility and forgiveness keep relationships alive – Okyeame Kwame shares three success nuggets
On 3FM Drive with Giovani Caleb, Okyeame Kwame – husband, father, musician, climate change advocate, and businessman – reveals three powerful ways to maintain a successful intimate relationship.
Okyeame Kwame’s first Advise – choose a partner who is consistent, present, and committed
The first piece of advice he gave was to choose a partner who is consistent, present, and committed. According to Okyeame, if a person is unsure if they want to be in your life, let them go. Even if it’s a day before the wedding.
The second lesson is to ask all of the awkward questions
The second lesson is to ask all of the awkward questions that are bound to arise after marriage. Couples should ask questions about finances, beliefs, family values, children, and pregnancy, according to him. “Ask all the difficult questions about marriage before you get into it.”
Okyeame Kwame’s third nugget was that ego has no place in relationships.
“If you ask what the ego is, it is the net total of everything you have been told and what you believe you are that tries to protect you from other people invading your space,” Okyeame explained.
According to Okyeame, the powers in a relationship are humility and forgiveness. He stated that if you foster a forgiving environment in relationships, the offender will stop doing hurtful things. You can also forgive your abuser from afar.
Okyeame promotes total surrender in relationships.
“Lay yourself down at your wife or husband’s feet, completely without the presence of the self. Be nice, kind, helpful, and available at all times. “Be present,” Okyeame said.
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